2 kids, 2 adults, 1 queen bed, and no personal space. I regret not splurging on a king-size mattress while my kids were little.

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I started going to raves alone at 35. I learned so much about myself by doing so.

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The author started going to raves by herself at 35.

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Everyone in my life thought moving for a 7-month relationship was reckless. They were right, but it was worth it.

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I thought not having kids was my biggest regret in life. I realized that I could be the cool aunt instead.

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The author didn't have kids and is now the cool aunt and dog mom.

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I'm an American who studied at universities in China. The Chinese system was cheaper and set me up for success after graduation.

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The author studied at two universities in China.

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My wife and I let go of our dreams and left New York City. We moved to a small town so we could be closer to my in-laws.

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The author and his wife moved out of New York City.

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I wasn't sure if my daughter was ready to sleep over at a friend's on her own. I decided to join her.

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The author joined her daughter at a sleepover.

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I found making friends as a new mom so hard. A stranger on the street changed everything.

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I want another child, but my husband doesn't. I've considered leaving, but instead, I'm looking for other ways to feel fulfilled.

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The author wants a second child, but her husband doesn't.

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I quit my job because I couldn't afford to rent or buy a house. I then moved to Thailand, where the cost of living is cheaper.

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The author moved to Thailand for a more affordable lifestyle.

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