I've been married to my husband for a decade. I wasn't prepared as a new military wife for how long he'd be gone.

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The author has been with her husband for 10 years and is used to spending time apart.

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I was a young mom and thought mom friends were overrated. Then, I made one.

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The author was 26 when she had her son and didn't have any other mom friends at first.

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Mariska Hargitay says she's 'grateful' she waited until 40 to get married

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Mariska Hargitay.
Mariska Hargitay.

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I was the first person in my friend group to have kids. At first, I was lonely, but then they started asking me for advice.

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It feels like I'm constantly spending money on my kids between September and December. I'm budgeting differently this year.

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The author spends a lot on her teen at the end of the year.

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Nicole 'Snooki' Polizzi now goes to bed at 7 p.m. and tells her kids that she was acting on 'Jersey Shore'

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Nicole Polizzi was ready to settle down and have kids.

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As a CEO and former Google manager, these are the 3 questions I ask during reviews. I apply them at home with my kids too.

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Chase Rigby is a father of four and applies the same approach at work and at home.

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I've raised 4 kids. My secret to keeping it together is saving the last hour of the day for myself.

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Halloween decorations brought my kids and me together. Doing it alone this year made me feel like I've lost them.

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The author's home (not pictured) isn't quite as spectacularly decorated as this Halloween house.

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I thought being a grandma would be easy. I've learned to respect boundaries and follow rules that aren't mine.

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The author cannot share photos of her grandkids on social media.

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